Believing Everything Is Possible: The Key to a Powerful Mindset to Achieve Your Dreams
It's not magic, it's an inner posture that changes the rules of the game. Find out how to adopt it.
A few years ago, when I was facing my dream project, one phrase kept coming up again and again from those around me who cared for me: "Be realistic." I heard this phrase so often that I almost believed it. "Realistic" meant giving up, aiming smaller, accepting the limitations others saw for me.
Then one day, a different question emerged: "What if the greatest realism was believing in my ability to create my own reality?"
This shift in perspective hasn't made the journey easier, but it has made it possible . In a world where doubt is the norm, cultivating the belief that anything is possible isn't naive optimism; it's a revolutionary act. It's the key to a powerful mindset that can transform not only your perceptions, but also your actual results.
Is "Realism" a Trap? Why Believing in the Impossible Changes Everything
Our brain is a fantastic GPS. If you give it the destination "it's impossible," it will show you with formidable efficiency all the blocked roads, the dangers, and the reasons to give up.
Conversely, if you program the destination "it's possible," your brain, through a mechanism called the Reticular Activating System , begins scanning your environment for solutions, opportunities, people, and ideas that can lead you to your destination.
Believing that anything is possible isn't magic. It's about giving your brain the right direction.
It is activating an energy which:
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Changes your biochemistry: Belief and hope release dopamine, the motivational neurotransmitter.
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Attracts Opportunities: You begin to see doors where you once saw only walls.
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Inspire others: Your conviction becomes a magnetic field that attracts those who can help you.
Figures like Oprah Winfrey, Elon Musk, and Marie Curie weren't born with a special gene. They shared a decision: to believe in a vision when the outside world still deemed it impossible.
"But it's not that simple!" - The Crucial Difference Between Conviction and Naive Optimism
Before we go any further, let's clarify one essential point. Believing that anything is possible does not mean:
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That everything will be easy and without obstacles.
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That you just have to "think positive" for things to happen.
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That difficulties and risks must be ignored.
It's quite the opposite.
Adopting this mindset means choosing to focus on your power to act rather than on external circumstances.
How to Adopt This Mindset? The 5 Concrete Levers
Embodying this posture in your daily life requires practice. Here are five pillars for cultivating it.
1. Building Self-Confidence: Your Foundation
Confidence is not a state, it's a muscle.
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Listen to your intuition: It's your inner compass. When faced with a decision, make a habit of asking yourself, "Deep down, what do I feel is right?"
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Keep a "victory journal": Every night, write down three things you accomplished during the day, even the smallest ones. "I dared to ask that question in a meeting," "I finished that difficult project." This reprograms your brain to see your strengths, not just your weaknesses.
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Act in alignment: Every time you take a small action that aligns with your values, you send your subconscious the message: "I am a reliable person."
2. Practice Creative Visualization: The Architect's Plan
Your brain doesn't differentiate between an intensely imagined experience and a real experience.
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The “Mental Film” exercise (5 minutes):
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Sit quietly, close your eyes.
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Imagine not the end result, but the scene where you just accomplished it.
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Activate your 5 senses: What do you see? What do you hear? What do you feel on your skin? What smells?
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Focus on the emotion : pride, joy, relief. Feel it in your body. By doing this, you create a memory of the future, making the path to get there more familiar and accessible.
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3. Use Positive Affirmations: Reprogram the Hard Drive
Affirmations are not magic formulas, but tools to replace limiting beliefs with helpful beliefs.
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Make them personal and in the present tense:
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Instead of "I'll get there," say, "I'm working on finding the solutions to get there."
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Instead of "I wish I had confidence," say, "Every day, my confidence grows."
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Some powerful statements:
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“I am open and ready to welcome unexpected opportunities.”
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“My dream deserves to exist and I bring it to life every day.”
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"I am able to learn everything I need to succeed."
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4. Take Massive... but Imperfect Actions
Belief without action is an illusion. Action is what transforms belief into conviction.
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The "Smallest Possible Step": Faced with a dream that seems immense, ask yourself: "What is the smallest action, even symbolic, that I can take in the next 24 hours?" Send an email, read an article, spend 10 minutes on a plan...
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The 5-Second Rule (Mel Robbins): As soon as the idea for an aligned action emerges, count 5-4-3-2-1 and physically move to begin it. This bypasses your brain's hesitation.
5. Welcome Fear as a Growth Companion
The goal isn't to eliminate fear. That's impossible. The goal is to change your relationship with it.
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The Passenger Metaphor: Imagine your dream is a car ride. You're in the driver's seat. Fear sits in the passenger seat. It's allowed to talk, shout, and play whatever music it wants, but it's not allowed to touch the steering wheel.
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Question your fear: When fear arises, ask it, "Thank you for being here to protect me. What exactly are you trying to warn me about?" Often, its response will give you valuable insight into what to prepare for, without stopping you.
The 7-Day Challenge: Activate the Mindset of Possibility
Move from reading to action. Take this simple challenge:
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Day 1: Write down one thing you believe is "impossible" for you. Write down 3 reasons why it might be possible, even if they seem crazy.
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Day 2: Take one "smallest possible step" toward one of your dreams.
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Day 3: Keep your "victory journal" tonight. Write down 5 successes.
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Day 4: Do the “Mental Movie” exercise for 5 minutes.
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Day 5: Choose an affirmation and repeat it aloud 10 times in the morning.
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Day 6: Identify a fear that is holding you back. Discuss it in writing.
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Day 7: Celebrate this week of practice, regardless of the results. You've planted the seeds.
Conclusion: Your Dream Begins with a Question
Believing that anything is possible doesn't mean everything will be easy or that you'll never experience failure.
This means you refuse to let failure, doubt, or other people's opinions be the end of your story. It means that as long as you choose to believe, create, and move forward, the game is always open.
Your life is not limited to what is "realistic." It expands to the extent of your courage and conviction.
So, I leave you with the only question that really matters: What if it were possible, what would you do differently... starting today?
Kevin Thibault
Founder of Kallok's Arts and author of "Where Everything Becomes Clear!"
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